L-O-V-E

hey, dont start moving away seeing the title. Actually , I was intrigued by one of my comments on this subject. He said "you should not marry someone because he/she loves you, but marry some one whom you love." I always thought the other way.
He also says "Any way I am going to love the person I am going to marry". phew.. then what is the problem in marrying the person LWY? I donno..

Love I always think that is a commodity which is most sought after and also the one which is neglected the most. The people who have it dont know the value of it and take it for granted and people who dont have it would give their fortune (sometimes even life.. but anyway I dont understand giving life logic.. let us save this topic for sometime later) to get it. But alas, both are at fault. What an irony, that an element so precious is wasted at one end and longed for ever at the other end. It is so skewed. Love is so subtle that it can cause both pain and happiness at the same time. It can make the same thought to be either preserved as the elixir of life or to be abhorred as the poison of Vasuki. It can play as strength and weakness of the same person. What an uniqueness. Usually love is associated with a person or thing, but Mother Teresa once said "Let your heart be like a spring. It should ooze out with Love all the time for all the people." But how many of us are as gifted as she?
Hmmm... atlast, as an advice I told him one thing, "I will be happy for you if you marry the girl in love with you". He had a host of other reasons, but I didnt counter those. Water always flows towards valley.. what else I can say..